The reasons for the orgasm gap are multi-faceted, and some of them will take a long time to remedy. It may relieve tension or stress. Typically changes in the menopausal period. Influences her sexuality, and low self-esteem is associated with sexual dysfunction. Just talking may help, although other strategies may be needed if she is experiencing severe emotional changes which are negatively affecting her daily life or relationships.
Make sex fun again
Talk about sex outside the bedroom
The average time for a women to orgasm is 12 minutes. But first things first.